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Renaissance Malibu Co-Dependency Programs

Co-Dependency is a term that has been greatly overused, but which indicates a common, life destroying orientation: using others, in many ways like an addict uses a drug, to establish one's identity, purpose and sense of well being. Renaissance Malibu offers a special track designed to identify and address co-dependency issues and liberate individuals from the destructive aspects of this condition.

Therapists originated the term co-dependency to describe the behaviors people develop living with alcoholics or addicts. Over time, however, co-dependency has come to be used to describe any chronically dysfunctional pattern of living, especially compulsive behaviors, learned in childhood to cope in a family experiencing great emotional turmoil or trauma. These childhood domestic environments that foster co-dependency in an adult can include mental or physical illness; emotional, physical or sexual abuse; divorce; or a generally abusive, hypercritical household.

Co-Dependency is an orientation founded in fear and is dependent on others and their behaviors. This is not just an overwrought "caring" on the part of the individual with co-dependency. It manifests as a destructive pattern of excessive concern, control, manipulation and obsession with others to the detriment of oneself.

Co-Dependency Help and Treatment

Adults with co-dependency issues have a tendency to get involved in relationships with people who are unreliable, emotionally unavailable, or needy. The person with co-dependency becomes a 'caretaker', trying to provide for and control all aspects of the relationship, to 'fix' the other's dysfunctional world without addressing their own needs and desires. While intentions of someone with co-dependency are good, it is inevitably self-destructive, setting them up for failure and disappointment. Without therapeutic co-dependency help, this damaging cycle will continue, and the co-dependent's emotional needs and expectations can never be fulfilled.

As one of the world's most accomplished co-dependency treatment centers, Renaissance Malibu offers our clients effective, healing co-dependency programs along with a full range of world-class drug and alcohol treatment options (Programs), including:

Psychiatric Evaluation: Upon arrival at Renaissance Malibu, you will have an initial psychiatric evaluation. If further diagnosis is indicated, you will have access to a Clinical Psychologist. Over the course of your co-dependency treatment, you will continue to work regularly with a trained therapist in individual sessions in order to uncover hidden aspects of yourself that are fueling the self-destructive cycle.

Therapy: In contrast to many co-dependency treatment centers that emphasize only group or individual therapy, at Renaissance Malibu we encourage a balance. Recovering from co-dependency means learning healthy ways to connect and communicate with others. Being able to access a positive, life affirming sense of relationship and community is not only something we all crave, but is necessary for recovery.

Healthy Boundaries: In our quest to be loved and accepted, the co-dependent has learned many behaviors that are destructive to growth and well-being. Learning to establish healthy boundaries is critical for ongoing recovery. At Renaissance Malibu we offer groups to help in identifying where poor boundaries have created problems in your life and establishing the tools to make necessary changes possible.

About Renaissance Malibu Co-Dependency Center

Our main facility is an expansive, 20,000 square foot home set in the Malibu Hills with panoramic views of the Pacific Ocean. This palatial estate, providing a healing, restful setting for our co-dependency treatment programs, is immaculately landscaped with trees and vegetation from all over the world. Our 30-yard lap pool, outdoor Jacuzzi and tennis court boast breathtaking views of the Pacific sunrise and sunset, allowing a magnificent setting for reflection, meditation and healing. Our co-dependency center also has community rooms including a massive oak-paneled library, a gourmet kitchen, and a gymnasium. Completing the amenities of what is widely considered to be the "most exclusive rehab center in the world," most of our bedrooms have ocean views with beveled glass French doors, opening onto marble balconies.

The Renaissance Malibu staff is a prestigious group, comprised of the most experienced and knowledgeable professionals from around the country. Our team members employ the most innovative and effective co-dependency programs available anywhere, many of them proprietary and available nowhere else in the world.

Utilizing the unique and exclusive environment of our facility to its fullest, our drug, alcohol and co-dependency programs provide residents clarity and focus, allowing them to "be in the moment." In the seclusion and safety of these luxurious surroundings, our residents can feel like they are home in a peaceful, safe and supportive environment.

For more information on Renaissance Malibu's co-dependency programs, a counselor is available by phone 24-hours a day at: 1-888-619-8500 or click here.
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